Once the metal closes around your wrist, you’ve given yourself away to the moment. Are you looking for the softness of faux fur, the kinkiness of rubber or the smell of leather filling the air as you resist? Are you watching whilst your partner is clasped into a leg spreader or shackled with thigh and wrist cuffs waiting for you to decide what happens? Suspense hangs in the air in lieu of the next move as the scene unfolds and the rope unravels.